The Other Woman

Slut! Whore! Bitch! Home Wrecker! Skank! Those are just examples of words that I hear on the daily basis by women who have been scorned by their lovers. They often voice their frustrations at the "other" women. She is the reason my man strayed. We were doing fine before she came along. Blah Blah Blah excuse after excuse. I find myself always amuse at these rantings. It never ceases to amaze why more women do not address the real culprit of the situation , their lovers. It was their boyfriend/husband/lover/whatever who stepped out in the relationship. No one force him to do it? We all have a choice to be faithful and he choose not too. It is the truth, it sucks but its reality.
Of course the situation gets more complicated if it was someone close to you who was involved in the affair. That kind of betrayal is hard to get over. Leaves you wondering which hurts more the betrayal from your lover or your friend? That's a tough one to answer. Regardless it was your partner that messed up the relationship. He should be hold accountable for his actions just as much as the "other" woman or even more so. Food for thought.