Is it just me?

I have a question for you all. I don't know if it is just me but after many discussions with my twin sister probably not. Maybe it is just the two of us but whenever I go out I always get hit on by the one person I'm not attracted to. It is not like they are butt ugly or anything but I am not feeling them unfortunately they are always feeling me. I always try to be nice and let them down gently but they are always persistent. I always get the persistent ones. My friends get the guys that go away but me I get the ones that don't understand that no means no. No does not me maybe in two seconds and yes one minute from now it means no. Last night I went to a lounge in NYC called Lair. It was a great time, the DJ was doing his thing , the drinks were flowing and the crowd were enthusiastic. I admit I was wearing shoes that made me want to die and I was slightly intoxicated so I was relaxing on the couch to regain my energy. This is the time when a genius decides to hit on me. He was an attractive guy but I was not jumping out of my seat. I said no a few times but he kept on trying to persuade me to dance with him. I kept on looking at my brother and my cousin to help me out but they were laughing at me. Finally my sister came over and asked if I wanted to dance with her. So we are getting down on the floor and the guy comes over as asks if we want to do a sandwich. I decide okay if my sister is here I'll be safe but of course she decides to leave me. So I'm dancing with him face to face and he keeps on trying to get me to turn around but I don't want to. Don't worry you are with a professional, not a amateur he tells me. Dude if I was interested it wouldn't matter to me, so I told him no. The whole time i was hoping that someone would pull me from the dance. Finally my brother came around us and that was how I escaped pretending I had to go somewhere with him. I have to work on not being so nice to people. If i just  hell no maybe he would have left me alone. I don't know why but I always get hit on guys that I'm not attracted to.